Why does anyone listen to this guy?
- Apr 28
- 12 min read
Updated: Apr 29
March, 2025
Updated April, 2026
This is my personal blog, Maggie's Musings. I mostly write about things personal to me, not about other people, business, politics etc.... I save that for other social media.
Today I decided to make an exception because I can't be a bystander any longer. It's an insult to my integrity to quietly observe wrong-doing and say nothing. It makes me complicit. The lies of a narcissistic community con man are not something my community should keep having to endure. I can't help but diagnose him with each new email and blog post he shoves at us. Sometimes his tone is vicious and angry. Other times he wants your sympathy and makes himself a victim. He likes to sound like an expert in business, but a closer look shows otherwise. Every now and then he's self-righteous and that's when I turn away in disgust. There is no boundary he will not cross to get what he wants. Ethics and legality are of no importance when the goal is to win at any price.
Mr. Narcissistic community con man cannot see in himself what others can, so he keeps talking. And talking. He can't see our faces so he keeps on trying to convince us that lies are truths and to ignore what is in front of us. Are we listening or laughing? It doesn't really matter because he will keep talking anyway. He makes false claims with no evidence and tells half truths to convey the message he wants others to believe. He ignores actual truth and lays blame, makes excuses and demonizes people whom he perceives as enemies. He will never accept accountability because he is never wrong. His highest priority in life is what others think of him. He has become a master at this, lying and convincing people he is blameless in any situation. By this middle stage of his life, he is well-practiced and easily manipulates people. He has a need to be heard and spends a lot of time trying to be. If he feels challenged, the narcissistic community con man will use threats to intimidate others. He threatens with lawsuits, public shame and fear in an effort to try and get or keep control. He has grandiose visions of himself and exaggerates accomplishments because he must be seen as special and important, after all, this is the supreme objective of narcissistic community con man's life.
There is no time for inconvenient truths because it's all about getting people to believe his narrative. Narcissistic community con man files lawsuits against his perceived rivals and enemies and broadcasts it loudly and with a self-righteous tone. He wants to regain control so he uses fear and threats to try and get it. Anyone can go file some paperwork to sue someone if they want to. But that is not the point. The point is control .What he doesn't do is talk about the outcomes of those lawsuits.
Most people would have lied low and stayed out of the spotlight after a public humiliation and loss. Not the narcissistic community con man! Instead he did exactly what any good narcissist would do: He plotted his revenge.
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Vindictiveness as a Defense Mechanism:
Narcissists may be more likely to become vengeful because they are highly sensitive to criticism and perceive challenges to their authority or sense of superiority as personal attacks. Their need for dominance and admiration fuels their desire to retaliate against those they see as a threat.
Manifestations of Vengeance:
A vindictive narcissist may engage in passive-aggressive behaviors like gossip, manipulation, or public humiliation. In more severe cases, they may actively seek to harm or destroy those they perceive as enemies.
Underlying Causes:
The drive for revenge in narcissists is often linked to a fragile sense of self-esteem, a fear of insignificance, and an inability to accept responsibility for their actions. They may project their own internal chaos and insecurities onto others, leading to a desire to punish those who threaten their fragile ego.
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Let's back up.
There was a local school board election. Narcissistic community con man entered the race but didn't follow the rules because...he's entitled, of course. Rules don't apply to him. So when he broke the law repeatedly and was repeatedly warned to stop he ignored those warnings.He was using the school district logo without authorization. Time went by. The school district lawyer warned him that they would be forced to file a restraining order against him and he still did not comply. More time went by. It wasn't until the school district put the issue on the board meeting agenda that the same day he finally complied. The local paper did a story about it. Narcissistic community con man wasn't the least bit concerned, he was even entertained by the whole thing because he got what he constantly craves--attention. What a waste of everyone's time. The whole thing was bizarre.
When the newspaper interviewed narcissistic community con man about what was going on, he said that he:
"...decided not to sign off on a formal agreement [to stop using school district logo on his campaign materials] “because it was dumb idea (sic) and a waste of time and resources,” he said in the letter. “I realized Monday evening when I got word the District was interested only in stopping my erroneous use of the logo, but not in figuring out how the mistake happened.”
The guy was this close to being served a restraining order by his kids' school district and he's mad because he wants them to sit down and listen to him explain his thought process?
THEN, unbelievably, just a few weeks later he did the same exact thing!
But instead of a smaller school district in Texas, the narcissistic community con man began using the trademark logo of a huge financial services company, a 117 billion dollar global company-- without their authorization.
And guess what his defense is? He says he didn't know that he couldn't use their business trademark without authorization. He claims he wasn't aware that he couldn't put their company logo on his own business page leading viewers into thinking he was an authorized associate. Can you believe this guy?! The narcissistic community con man was at it again, lying and ignoring numerous letters from the HUGE financial services company and their lawyers.
Don't those HUGE financial services company's lawyers realize that he's special? Laws and rules don't apply to him, duh!
The HUGE financial services company also told him to stop "cybersquatting" because he had purchased the domain "Huge Financial Services Company.com and had a link to it with their trademarked logo button on his business page.
They were patient with him.
They gave him lots of opportunities to comply.
He ignored them and never responded. (Sound familiar?)
Then the narcissistic community con man doubled down. He wrote an article about the HUGE financial services company with some fear-mongering and false information about the company and published it on his business page
The HUGE financial services company's lawyers were really getting tired of his nonsense.
They gave him some more chances to comply. He didn't respond.
They told him if he didn't respond by August 30th 2024 then they were going to file a lawsuit.
Of course he didn't respond.
This 117 Billion dollar company filed a lawsuit against the narcissistic community con man on August 30, 2024. He obviously knew he was in big trouble this time because he actually hired a lawyer and public record reveals that he started making some changes with his assets very soon after, during September 2024. (Update: An agreement was reached between HUGE financial services company and narcissistic community con man. I did not research beyond that but more details are likely discoverable online (as well as the original complaint) in a search of federal cases/United States District Court for Northern District of Texas (Dallas).)
During his campaign for trustee, some very troubling information was revealed about him that included court documents with disturbing accusations from his ex wife that included domestic violence, her detailed statement to law enforcement (given under penalty of perjury) and a restraining order. He denied any of it happened. (Quick internet search shows otherwise...public information is a thing.) He didn't realize that the restraining order was still active because he had read internet articles and watched YouTube videos for legal advice at the time instead of hiring a lawyer, and he didn't know the proper legal procedures.
(*Update--I just took a look at the public record and it appears he has now taken care of that loose end. Quick internet searches can provide so much helpful public information!)
The online link to the courthouse in the county where he used to live reveals that he had been sued by a bank and a couple of other companies for fraud. The record shows he lost those cases. I do think it's interesting that throughout all of his legal woes he never hired an attorney.Narcissistic community con man always represented himself, pro se. I'm pretty sure it happened something like this: He figured he didn't need to pay money to any of those professionals who go to college and study law, graduate law school and then take a really tough test called the bar exam. He thought having an attorney these days was way overrated and a waste of money. How hard could the law be for a smart guy like himself? I am 100% willing to bet that our guy read some articles on the internet and watched a few YouTube videos and felt so smart about all his new law knowledge and having saved himself those big attorney bucks. (Years later he would eventually hire a lawyer, of questionable value, but a lawyer nontheless.)
So why would a narcissistic community con man like him want to be on the school board anyway?
It seems like with his past he'd want to be out of the spotlight? Not this guy who feeds on attention.
He did run and lost his bid to be a trustee which was so shocking since he found high school athletes to endorse him online and all.
The same night that he lost the election, he resigned from his stint on the board of his HOA. A petition was being circulated by his neighbors demanding he resign due to some controversial things he was doing and interpersonal turmoil with others on the board and in the neighborhood.
For Reference:
--Narcissist
an individual showing symptoms of or affected by narcissism: such as
an extremely self-centered person who has an exaggerated sense of self-importance
--Con man
noun
More formal term: confidence man. informall a person who swindles another by means of a confidence trick
"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012
April 28, 2026 - One Whole Year Later -
It's been a year and I had almost forgotten about narcissistic community con man! But it's school board election season and he's got an axe to grind because he can't lose or admit defeat, ever. So he's at it again. The narcissistic community con man possesses a massive ego that constantly needs feeding. His primal need to feel important and relevant can't be satisfied. He believes that his highly insightful thoughts and ideas are meant to bless the eyes and ears of the eagerly waiting community. He goes to great lengths to do it and assembles his own database by accessing school directories (which is prohibited by the way) and other information that is discoverable by searching online and cutting/pasting. Unsuspecting residents in the community began receiving long emails from the narcissistic community con man, and they are chock full of stories and lies plucked from his sinister imagination. He demonizes innocent people, even publicly attacking their small businesses and livelihoods. He claims to have much evidence but that, too, comes directly from his active imagination. His tactics to get folks to believe him are cunning, even sociopathic some would say.
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In fact, after he lost the election he sued his former opponent. Really.
There was a trial and he lost. There was no evidence of anything he claimed, just a pathetic small man with a vivid imagination who cannot accept defeat and needs to blame someone. He had to pay his former opponent lots of money. I heard he wouldn't pay up and after several unsuccessful reminders a sheriff's deputy showed up on his doorstep and served him an order to pay up or else. (But these could just be rumors.)
He couldn't stop there! The narcissistic community con man filed ANOTHER lawsuit against ANOTHER woman who he blamed for his election defeat. He had been targeting this particular woman for a long time because she wasn't a fan of his and had an audience. He accused her of all kinds of misdeeds against him and his imagination was working in overdrive. He publicly and vocally went after her incessantly. He was obsessed with and fixated on this innocent woman, making her a regular topic of his conversations and the subject of his long emails.
He lost again. Different trial, different judge, same conclusion. The narcissistic community con man who wanted so desperately to blame someone for being the loser of an election failed, again. The judges could smell the shit he's full of through their computer screens. It was that bad. He showed up to court with no evidence of anything, just the nasty smell of shit emanating from his sweaty little pores. In fact he's a pretty small man in general. He will have to pay the innocent woman he has spent years bullying lots of money and I'm not sure if he has paid her yet. I heard he may not have paid his exemplary lawyer yet either. (But that could be a rumor.) Unbelievably, even though he lost his lawsuit against this woman he has been bullying for years, he continues to go after her while she continues to ignore him. I hope she files suit against him and they get the same judge that ruled in her favor and against him already. I bet the courts are sick of seeing his sue-happy loser mug.
Are we keeping track? Has the narcissistic community con man ever won a lawsuit?
--He lost to the two banks who sued him for fraud in the state he lived in previously.
--He denies horrific violence against his first, much younger spouse despite what she submitted to law enforcement under penalty of perjury.
--He lost to the HUGE financial services company who sued him in federal court.
--He lost to the winner of the trustee election that he lost--a lawsuit he filed.
--He lost to the woman he blames for everything that's wrong with his life-another lawsuit he filed.
--He resigned before he was fired (on the very same night he lost his election) from his post on the neighborhood HOA board due to ethical and personality deficits. I heard that his entire neighborhood can't stand him, but that could just be a rumor.
--He filed a lawsuit against the school district during a global pandemic. I'm unsure how that ultimately ended but I do know that a lawsuit from him about wearing masks was the last thing our school district needed during the COVID pandemic.
--He was banned from the Pop Warner fields (youth football league similar to Little League baseball) for his foul behavior. Our kids were on the same team and I was "spirit mom" so I would make the hike to the edge of the field or the end of the bleachers to hand off spirit items like pom-poms and cow bells. This is youth sports and he cannot control his behavior. Ask yourself if you would let him watch your kids or be around ALL the kids in the school district as a trustee. Would you trust him to make thoughtful decisions for the betterment of the schools, students, teachers and staff? Nope.
And these are the things we know about. Just imagine what we don't know. (I actually do know some more things but I'm holding back.)
What a role model for the youth of today!
Tell me again why ANYONE would EVER listen to this man? He's dishonest and will say and do anything to get his way, whatever that may be, with no regard for the law, others or consequences.
He is dangerous.
He perpetuates division.
He manipulates others.
He is cunning.
He is vengeful.
He is dishonest, lies and makes up "evidence" against innocent people as it suits his needs with no actual proof of anything or regard to the collateral damage he causes.
Who is going to be next? Probably I am! Come at me, bro... that will be fun!
He is a liar of the worst kind who believes he is the center of the universe.
Here is what I don't understand:
Knowing about his dishonest behavior, rotten reputation, colorful past and disregard for rules and laws....
WHY WOULD ANY CANDIDATE --FOR ANYTHING-- BROADCAST HIS
SUPPORT OF THEM?
WHY WOULD ANY CANDIDATE EVER ACCEPT HIS MONEY,
INVITATIONS AND PUBLICITY?
WHY WOULD THEY EVER POST BIG SMILEY PHOTOS OF THEM TOGETHER?
Gross.
Seriously, are these candidates clueless or desperate?
It makes me wonder who they really are and question why narcissistic community con man wants to get them elected?
What is it about these candidates that he likes and supports?
Why aren't they RUNNING as far away from him as fast as they can get!
I don't have dog in the hunt and don't even live in Texas anymore. I've got nothing to lose or gain by who gets elected, but those of you who live in this Austin community do. We can tell a lot about folks by the company they keep, and the company they AVOID. Don't say that Maggie didn't warn you with her musings!
Please note: This is my original writing with my own perceptions, ideas and musings. Any connection to actual people and characters is completely coincidental.
